LOOKING FOR THE HUSBAND TO DIE FOR! | Edwin Christiaan

Christian women dream of having the ideal godly husband! 

What these women are actually looking for is a man that God knew in advance, and chose to become like His Son, Jesus Christ! (See Romans 8:29)

It is man who loves his wife unconditionally, just as Christ loves the church. He provides leadership to his wife the way Christ does to His church, not by domineering, but by cherishing. 

It is a man who does not reject or hate himself, but is full of God’s love! He knows that a man who loves his wife actually shows love for himself! His words evoke his wife’s beauty. 

Everything he does and says is designed to bring the best out of her! He will make her look good, as she radiates with God’s holiness! (See Ephesians 5:22-30)

It is a man who loves and honors his wife and never treats her harshly! Instead, he treats her with understanding and as an equal partner in God’s gift of new life. He knows, that as he treats her as he should, his prayers will not be hindered! (See Colossians 3:19, 1. Peter 3:7)

It is a man who fulfills his wife’s sexual needs, and gives authority over his body to her! (See 1. Corinthians 7:3-4)

It is a man who thinks about his earthly responsibilities and how to please his wife! (See 1. Corinthians 7:33)

ITS HAPPENING JUST AS THE BIBLE PREDICTED! By Edwin Christiaan

The Bible speaks about the dangers of the last days, where, among other things, vulnerable women who are burdened with the guilt of sin and controlled by various desires are forever following new teachings, but they are never able to understand the truth! (See 2. Timothy 3:6-7)

How amazingly true this is! Over the years, we have seen many such women go from one prophetic meeting to another, without their lives changing for the good and them becoming godly!

Instead of following Biblical truth, these women no longer listen to sound and wholesome teaching. They are being tossed and blown about by every wind of new teaching, and they are easily influenced when people try to trick them with lies so clever, they sound like the truth!

These women follow their own desires, and they are only looking for teachers who will tell them whatever their itching ears want to hear. They reject the truth, and chase after myths!

Our modern-day myth include prophetic teachings, revelations about how to get into your promised land, when and how you will get your “Boaz” husband, big money blessings coming your way, promises of getting to live in big mansions, and how you will be attaining a prominent leadership position! (See 2. Timothy 4:3-4, Ephesians 4:14)  

A BIBLICAL WORD TO WOMEN By Edwin Christiaan

God called women to be known for the beauty that comes from within, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is so precious to Him! (See 1. Peter 3:4)

God did NOT call women to be elders or pastors, having authority over men! Why? Because the Bible clearly says that a church leader MUST be a man! (See 1. Timothy 3:2)

For this reason, the apostle Paul taught that women should learn quietly and submissively and that they should not teach men or have authority over them, but instead listen to them quietly. (See 1. Timothy 2:11-12)

That is why the older godly women were instructed to train the younger women to love their husbands and their children, to live wisely and be pure, to work in their homes, to do good, and to be submissive to their husbands. And in doing so, these younger women would not bring shame on the word of God! (See Titus 2:4-5)

It further confirms this in 1. Peter 3:1-6 and Ephesians 5:24, when it says that women who are married must accept the authority of their husbands and submit to them in everything, even if some refuse to obey the Good News, their godly lives will speak to them without any words. Their husbands will be won over by observing their pure and reverent lives. Women should put their trust in God and do what is right without fear of what their husbands might do!

Women are not called to associate with or be married to anyone who - even if he claims to be a believer - indulges in sexual sin, is greedy, or worships idols, or is abusive, or is a drunkard, or cheats people. She should not even eat with such a person! (See 1. Corinthians 5:11)

Women should not draw attention to themselves by being concerned about the outward beauty of fancy hairstyles, expensive jewelry or clothing. They should be modest in their appearance and wear decent and appropriate clothing. For women who claim to be devoted to God should make themselves attractive by the good things they do! (See 1. Peter 3:3, 1. Timothy 2: 9-10)