This is when you are married to someone who is appointed by
the Devil to obstruct and destroy your walk with God!
For the man, this means: You are married to a woman, who is
not submissive to the will of Jesus Christ and His Word. Instead of helping you,
she constantly hinders you from accomplishing God’s will. Instead of you
leading her in God’s ways, she is taking charge over you; disrespecting your
authority as her head, while leading you away from God. She is not humble and
gentle, but likes to teach you how to treat her, and she will vex you until you
give into her demands. You are in a constant power struggle with her, because
she refuses to submit to you as God - through His Word - has purposed for her
to do.
For the woman, this means: You are married to a man, who
does not submit to the will of Jesus Christ and the Bible. Instead of loving
you like Christ loves the church, he treats you harshly, and is unkind and
abusive towards you. He does not honor you by speaking good things about you,
but instead he looks at other women and lusts after them. He does not treat you
with understanding, and he does not regard you as his equal partner in God’s
gift of new life. Because of the way he treats you, God is not answering his
prayers and therefore there is no blessing in your relationship with him. The
marriage is stuck in a curse!
Ephesians 5:21-33, Proverbs 31:11-12, 1. Peter 3:1,
Colossians 3:19, Matthew 5:28, 1. Peter 3:7
